alisonmarie answered Saturday July 9 2005, 10:31 am: Yes. If your boyfriend has an STD, you could have gotten it.
Have you heard of precum? It's that liquid that leaks from the tip of the penis BEFORE a boy ejaculates - this can start happening from the minute his penis is erect.
Precum is a bodily fluid, and as such, it can transmit infections. There are some infections that you could get without any fluid at all, such as warts, herpes, or lice.
daughterofwily answered Saturday July 9 2005, 9:34 am: Becuase of the nature of certain STDs, it would be HARDER to get them if he didn't ejaculate. However, the chance is STILL THERE, and STILL GOOD.
Remember, the mouth is essentially a mucous membrane. The skin there is not as geared toward keeping stuff out as most of the skin on your body is. The same is true, although I think to a lesser degree, of the external genetalia.
Some STDs are spready by simple genital to skin contact, such as genital warts and herpes. (Did you know that you can get the STD herpes in your mouth, and oral "cold sore" herpes on your genitals? This usually happens when you receive oral sex from someone who has genital herpes or give oral sex when you have Type I in your mouth). I don't care whether he ejaculated or not, if his penis touched your mouth, there is a chance that you could have gotten an STD.
The nastier STDs are more likely to spread through ejaculate/semen, but that doesn't mean they can't spread in the pre-ejaculate or from being on the skin. If you had any cuts in your mouth, his pre-ejaculate (the liquid before he ejaculated) can get into it and infect you with whatever STDs he might be carrying. It's less likely becuase he didn't ejaculate, but that does not mean that it's improbable.
The best thing that you can do right now, is to get tested, and get your boyfriend to do the same. Getting tested for HIV and Syphillis at the very least, and everything else if you can. After that's taken care of, retest after six months. Why? Becuase you can have negative HIV test results for quite a while.
danexmachina answered Saturday July 9 2005, 7:02 am: most people don't use a condom when giving head. it is possible to get an std such as oral herpes from it, so have your boyfriend tested to be on the safe side. if the results come back ok, feel free to give him head as much as you (or he) wants, just make sure to use a condom for intercourse to prevent pregnancy. [ danexmachina's advice column | Ask danexmachina A Question ]
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