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Giving head and STDs
I'm thinking of giving my boyfriend head, and I want to know how to do it.. And also, is it normal to use a condom? I know that some people do, to avoid STDs and everything, but do a lot of people use it..? And what STDs can be contracted from it, if he cums?
Thanks =)
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I've never given head before but go to [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) it will tell you <b>everything</b> you need to know. You should ALWAYS use a condom. And yes, to avoid STD's. Lots of STD's can be contracted from him if he cums. But not just that - just contact with the penis can give you an STD so its better to be SAFE with a <font size=5>condom!!</font>
♥ MichL
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If you want to use a condom, go for it. A lot of people do this because it's very possible that you could get an STD from giving head. I wouldn't use just a normal condom, because they taste very gross. Maybe you could try a flavored one, I'm sure you'll enjoy it. Don't worry about him cumming in your mouth. It's much safer for him to cum in your mouth then inside of you. If you trust your boyfriend and you are his first sexual partner, it'll be safe to give head without a condom.
♥ Krissy
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---TO GIVE A BLOWJOB... it's not haRd. Just don't think about it befoRe hand, because then you'll stRess youRself out. And don't pay TOO much thought to it WHILE DOING IT. Just kinda, go with the flow, if you can undeRstand that?
---AS FOR TIPS/TECHNIQUES... eh. Just take it in youR hand and kiss all the way down the side, and lick the undeRside - they have a majoR vain theRe and it's VERY SENSITIVE! That usually dRives them wild. Then suck on the head a bit.. bRing it in youR mouth until the head is entiRely in.. then bring it out and lick the outside a bit. And usually guys like if you play with theiR balls; but not all do, so staRt to gentle massage and fondle them, and then ask if he likes that... Eventually you'll staRt bRinging him all the way in youR mouth as much as possible, and all the way out -- it's not as complicated as it sounds.
---SPIT OR SWALLOW... honestly.. they like when you swallow. It makes them feel masculine and in contRol.. like.. "oooh.. this bitch is all oveR me", kinda thing, you see? As faR as taste goes.. it honestly DOES depend on the peRson; so I can't say much theRe. Sometimes it'll be okay... sometimes soo yummie, and otheR times so nasty it'll make you wanna fRicken puke [in my peRsonal expeRience, that is] EveRy guy I have EVER known likes when they swallow, so tRy that, definitely. And if you don't like swallowing.. you don't have to do it again, just make shoRe you get the entiRe fiRst load down. Any guy who is even a QUARTER of a human being won't be upset with you if you don't swallow. If someone gets mad oveR that, they obviously hold NOOOO Respect foR you, and this is a sign you need to DITCH THEM IMMEDIATELY!! And noooooooo.... it does not make you sick. And nooooooooo you can not get pRegnant. And theRe isn't Really a bad side of swallowing. And if you weRe to spit... just spit it out. Plain and simple. Don't make a hawking noise.. that's uncalled foR. I guess it's easieR to just lightly "spit" it out of youR mouth only faR enough to Run down youR chin.
---ANOTHER NOTE... when peRfoRming oRal sex.. STD's aRe DEFINITELY POSSIBLE!! Many times people aRe wise about this and use condoms. These condoms aRe the same as that of condoms you would use duRing sexual inteRcouRse. Condoms nowadays come in many diffeRent coloRs, textuRes, flavoRs and even glow in the daRk. You could have fun with it!! And that could also take caRe of youR spit oR swallow dilemma. I'm NOT tRying to scaRe you, I just think it's impoRtant you know the possible consquences of youR actions. I've included a link all about STD's and theiR pRevention. Please take a look at this and think haRd on whetheR pRotection is something you choose to use oR not.... [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
I'm shoRe you'll do fine. :) It's honestly no biggie. I wish you all the best of luck, though you won't need it! =D Hopefully I have been of at least SOME help heRe!! Know that if you eveR need anything else... I'm always heRe foR you!! :D
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It is possible to get a few STDS from giving head, you can get warts in your mouth or even contract aids if you have any cuts in your mouth.
Having said that, having a guy cum in your mouth is waaaaaaaay less risky then having him inside you. The risks are pretty minimal.
I know you can use a condom, frankly I hate the taste. But there is no reason you can't if you want too.
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