awhile back i gave my boyfriend head, and i only did it once, but im deathly afraid i have an std. i dont want to tell my parents anything. he told me he didnt cum but im scared. i go to bed crying often because of it. do i have an std?
thanks.
Anthony_d answered Sunday July 3 2005, 3:39 pm: Well if he's honest and is telling you the truth. Then there is no way he can have(well a slim chance) an std. And if he didnt have one to pass on then you don't have one. But if youre anxious then speak to you're GP and ask them. Always the best thing. But you shouldn't have one if he didnt cum and if he has never had penetrative sex.
Hope i helped,
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xOchErrytWistOx answered Saturday July 2 2005, 10:33 pm: Well, most likely, no. Ok, he's had to have gotten head from another girl or had sex with another girl. If he's lying to you, its the only way you could have an STD. As long as he has not had sex or not been given head by anyone else but you, you're safe. By the way, even if he doesnt cum, you could still get an STD like HPV (genital warts or in your case, genita warts in your mouth) or Herpes. If you have any more questions, drop me on in my inbox.
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xGAWSHNESSx answered Saturday July 2 2005, 8:41 pm: um... u didnt give us enough information for us to tell if you have an std or not. get tested, that is the smartest thing to do right now. and don't have sex again until you AND your boyfriend have been tested. hope ive helped
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katlyn5319 answered Saturday July 2 2005, 8:40 pm: well hoesntly i cant tell yo if you do or not seeing as all your saying is that you gave him head and thats about all t he info you gave us. but if your that scared or whatever then go get tested it sthe only way to be sure [ katlyn5319's advice column | Ask katlyn5319 A Question ]
Mackenzie answered Saturday July 2 2005, 4:08 pm: I SERIOUSLY doubt you have an STD, Hun.. honestly. I say you have 100% ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to woRRie about. BUT.. ANYTHING is possible.. so if you COMPLETELY beat youRself up woRRying about it.. you can go get youRself checked out at a clinic. I guess it IS betteR safe than soRRie, but I can almost guaRantee you you'Re good!! Know that I'm always, always, always heRe if you eveR need someone. ♥ [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
AnonymousAdviceGiver answered Saturday July 2 2005, 4:05 pm: I wouldn't worry about it if all he has ever gotten was a hand job. You two should go to planned parenthood and both get tested for stds.
In the future, use a condom even during oral sex. And get some dental dams for when he reciprocates (if you aren't also getting oral sex out of the deal, dump him immediately).
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