I am turning 15 in less than a month and lately ive been looking up information about female masturbation. I masturbated the 1st of march for the first time ever. Well i dont know if sticking a magic marker in your vagina is masturbating...but anyway. Today i worked up the nerve to finger myself. It felt weird. Yesterday when i first ever masturbated i thought it felt really good...and i really want to have an orgasm...i just dont know how. I'm not comfertable with large objects in my vagina, only the size of my index finger. So my first question is " How do i get an orgasm with nothing bigger than a magic marker or my finger?" and my second question is "how come the morning after the first time i masturbated i felt really sick?"
Sorry this is so long...but i really need to know. Thanks everyone.
S_C answered Wednesday March 2 2005, 7:33 pm: I don't want to judge, but a magic marker? Anyway, I don't do that, so I'm not completely sure. But I do know, that it doesn't putting something up there to get an orgasm... I've never experienced one, because I've never done anything remotely like that, but I do know from other people, that they've gotten an orgasm without anything being up there. I've also heard that you can get an orgasm through clitoral stimulation, which I'm not really going to explain, but there are websites on it, I bet all you'd have to do is search at [Link](Mouse over link to see full location), or [Link](Mouse over link to see full location). I never heard of anyone feeling sick the morning after masturbating. Isn't it supposed to be a good feeling, during and after masturbation? Well, maybe because you aren't used to it, you felt weird or guilty, and then the next morning you just felt a little queasy, or maybe it had nothing to do with masturbating. Unfortunately on your part I don't masturbate, so I don't know much information, except for what friends I know who do that tell me, and like if someone asks me a question to my inbox and I don't know the answer I research it, so pretty much all I know on this subject is clitoral stimulation, never have done it, but well, I suppose since it's a form of masturbation without anything being inserted into the vagina then you can get an orgasm from that. Sorry I'm not really all that help, and sorry that I'm so confusing. But I do hope I helped at least a little bit. ~Kate [ S_C's advice column | Ask S_C A Question ]
evilenterprisesinc answered Wednesday March 2 2005, 7:29 pm: No.1 Most female orgasms are clitoral.. so try stimulating the clitoris.. play with the clitoris more than actually "fingering" yourself.. after you start getting really turned on, you should get wet giving you enough lubricant to get 2 fingers in.. then you have to explore yourself, but don't forget the clitoris (its an important factor in the female orgasm), and find your g-spot.. its like a fleshy spot on the inside wall of your vagina about the size of a 5c peice.. (varies between women) it should be just inside toward the front, not the back.. hope this all makes sense... just keep playing with your clit, and SOFTLY massaging your g-spot (if you manage to find it, if you dont, dont worry, its very illusive, most women cant find it)
TannerT09 answered Wednesday March 2 2005, 7:23 pm: i really dont think u should be sticking thinks up yourself...its called waiting until marriage..lol...and a magic marker?psssshhhhh........ur weird...thats all i can say.. [ TannerT09's advice column | Ask TannerT09 A Question ]
Magic answered Wednesday March 2 2005, 7:14 pm: well im a guy but i know u dont need to stick anyhting in yourself to have an orgasm you can massage your clitoris its at the top of you vagina youl know it when you find it and many girls like it better there then inside them selves and im not sure why you felt sick sry hope i helped [ Magic's advice column | Ask Magic A Question ]
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