Question Posted Thursday December 30 2004, 9:48 pm
I am 23 years old. I have been having sex with my boyfriend for about 2 years now. He's the only person I've ever slept with, and vice versa. I'm having problems because sex is very painful with him and I don't enjoy it. His penis is very large and it hurts a LOT. The length isn't so much a problem, but the girth. Neither of us has any STD's or anything like that. I love him a lot and we've even talked about marriage but I can't imagine a life of not enjoying sex. Any advice?
jokerzgrl answered Saturday January 8 2005, 11:49 am: You should try taking yoga class to "stretch" some things out. I t would probably make things more comfortable. Also, try different positions where you are in control of penetration. I would also recommend vaginal exercise, i don't much about them, sorry, but I've heard about them. But your problem is very interesting, and quite suprising. But i think you go with the yoga for sure, I really think that would help.
MAd Love,
Victoria [ jokerzgrl's advice column | Ask jokerzgrl A Question ]
Gpsexiemexie11 answered Sunday January 2 2005, 12:28 am: Hey i think that is a problem see you should go to the doctor or gyno to see whats up lol cause its not the length that might hurt it might be that your infected or something and you just need him to go slower or he could try reduction [ Gpsexiemexie11's advice column | Ask Gpsexiemexie11 A Question ]
hellome90 answered Saturday January 1 2005, 1:14 pm: penis reduction always works, Make sure that if he gets it your not going to break up with him or something, that would just be bad. Also try some lube or something makes things much easier I hear. [ hellome90's advice column | Ask hellome90 A Question ]
college101 answered Friday December 31 2004, 2:02 pm: you need to take a trip to the gyno, they have seen it all and know how to help you. if you get the help u need u will find that you will be able to enjoy sex with him. just be careful and smart about it. [ college101's advice column | Ask college101 A Question ]
PleaseHelpMe answered Friday December 31 2004, 1:28 am: Well thats a long time for it still to hurt. I would tell him that it hurts you. Maybe you can find a way for it not too, and maybe he'd go as far as ..penis reduction for you. Good luck. [ PleaseHelpMe's advice column | Ask PleaseHelpMe A Question ]
CaitLynnG answered Friday December 31 2004, 12:18 am: This might sound a bit odd. But try penis reduction. I'm sure if you check in with the doctor they might have some ideas. Hope i've helped. = ) [ CaitLynnG's advice column | Ask CaitLynnG A Question ]
Shortie8959 answered Thursday December 30 2004, 10:44 pm: Maybe try telling him to move slower. Or go to the doctor and see what they can do. There's penis reduction, I think, I'm not sure if that's real. Lol. If nothing works out, maybe just masturbate. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
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Sherry answered Thursday December 30 2004, 10:12 pm: Maybe you could ask him to go slower than usual and see if that helps! It wont be fun for him probably but who knows.. [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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