umm...why would u wanna swallow the cum when u giv head?? i think taht is just really sick. i don't think i can do it to my bf. and im not sure wat he wants me to do. i hav also heard that u can get hiv or usmthin from swallowing cum or can get a STD. is this true? and wats sooo great bout swallowing cum from a guy? i would rather just giv head and use a condom. that way i dotn hav to taste it or nething. wat would b best? o im 13/f (and not a slut. im a virgin and ive never gave head and ive been wit my bf for 3 years!!)
PhatAzz_4life answered Tuesday October 5 2004, 3:24 pm: if he want you to do it and you don't want to give him head then on't because you don't have to do everything that people want you to do and don't let people talk you in to doin it
if you don't want but it's a stupied to do but do want you think is best [ PhatAzz_4life's advice column | Ask PhatAzz_4life A Question ]
Shaye1223 answered Tuesday October 5 2004, 2:51 pm: I wouldnt want to swallow the cum because it says that you can catch sexually transmitted diseases through bodily fluids and semen (cum) is a bodily fluid.....and some people have been known to get sick from thatg...but that is on youj whatg you do...hope i could help [ Shaye1223's advice column | Ask Shaye1223 A Question ]
girdy_goo15 answered Monday October 4 2004, 10:46 am: okay first of all swallowing is really nasty. so is giving head but n e ways that's just me. all my friends do it they just don't swallow. and you can get HIV and STD's from just kissing someone. any exchange of bodily fluids will do it. so just be careful. and if he dosen't like it then sucks to be him. [ girdy_goo15's advice column | Ask girdy_goo15 A Question ]
Pixiemagic14 answered Sunday October 3 2004, 10:16 pm: um well that's true you can get HIV's and AID's from giveing oral sex and swolloing the cum is mostly how you get it. I think using a condom would be best cause that way you'll be safe from getting anything ( but you can only get something if your boyfriend has it and you happen to swollow his cum then you'll get something)But besides that using a condom is smart when giveing oral sex.but remeber flavor condoms. [ Pixiemagic14's advice column | Ask Pixiemagic14 A Question ]
EMiLYELiZABETH answered Sunday October 3 2004, 6:48 pm: Hey there. Based on expierence, cum just tastes gross LOL. It's salty first off and warm (bleh haha) However, giving head is fun until you get cum in your mouth. What I suggest is giving until he gets ready to cum (and if he's a nice guy, he'll tell you when he's about to) and then you can move and let him cum on a towel.
You can't get HIV/AIDS from cum, but you can get STD's in your throat (there was even a thing on ER one night about it) so unless you REALLY know him well, I'd use a condom, the flavored ones are fun ;)
russianspy1234 answered Sunday October 3 2004, 3:59 pm: wqell most importantly you can get an STD weather you swallow it or not. its just more sensual if you, if the guy sees you spitting it out (on his carpet? lol) and then quickly running to wash out your mouth it isnt really good for self esteem. But yes its perfectly fine to use a condom for it in which case hes not really expecting you to drink it afterwards you know? [ russianspy1234's advice column | Ask russianspy1234 A Question ]
UnluckyWishes answered Sunday October 3 2004, 3:29 pm: Yea you can get STD's from it.I'm not sure why anyone would want to swallow it, but whatever makes them happy i guess.You should pry use a condom.i know there's condoms that come in flavors so you mgiht wanna do that.Hope i helped. [ UnluckyWishes's advice column | Ask UnluckyWishes A Question ]
alisonmarie answered Sunday October 3 2004, 2:11 pm: You can get an STD whether or not you swallow the cum - if no condom is used. Before a guy comes, there is precum and that would carry any infection...as would any open sores or cuts on his penis.
It's smart to use a condom, and it's great that you are making your mind up about sexual things before you are in a position where you might have to just jump to a quick decision. It's always best to figure out how you really feel and then stick to it.
manda44 answered Sunday October 3 2004, 1:22 pm: ok, i wouldnt kno what is soo great about swallowing cum. ive never gave head or swallowed. but some girls have told me it tastes good.. like sweet. others say bitter. i agree about its really sick. and it shouldnt be up to him to decide what HE wants YOU to do. and u can get an STD just by putting your mouth on his stuff. and u have a better chance if u swallow it. id say ur better off with using a condom. that way u dont have to worry about ne thing...
hope i helped.
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mysticpixie05 answered Sunday October 3 2004, 1:21 pm: I dont know why people do it. It isnt all that great. But maybe some people like to it. You dont have to swallow. You can spit it. And there are also a couple of other methods, but i wont get into those. Yes you can get an STD, but in order to get one your boyfriend must have it. If he has no STD's then you dont have to worry about getting one. It you are really that scared and worried about it, to make sure you wont get one you can have him get checked before you don anything with him. And alos vise versa, he may want you to get checked for anything if you plan on going further than just giving him head. And if you want him to use a condom just tell him and he should respect that about you. If you want, get some flavored ones so it wont be so bad. But it is completly up to you and your boyfriend. Have fun! Hope this helps. And I wish you the best of luck and also with your boyfriend of three years. [ mysticpixie05's advice column | Ask mysticpixie05 A Question ]
Karen answered Sunday October 3 2004, 1:08 pm: Yup, you can get an STD if you swallow the cum but the guy needs to have an STD in order for you to get it. I think it's better if the guy uses a flavorable condom because it tastes good for the girls and then they won't get any diseases lol ;) Hope I helped and good luck with everything sweetie, including your relationship with your boyfriend of 3 years!! :) [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
HIMlovemetal325 answered Sunday October 3 2004, 1:06 pm: Its not all that great and yes you can get STDs. Don't feel forced to give him head if you don't want to. If you decide to though, definitely make him use a condom. Hope I helped :-)
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