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I had sex, and i didnt use a condom! STUPID! What do I do now?


Question Posted Friday July 23 2004, 11:27 pm

I had sex about 6 days ago, and i didnt use a condom! im supposed to start my period sometime this week, or at the end of the month! WHat do i do if i dont have my period, i wouldnt kno what to do because i dont talk to my parents about this stuff..pleez help me!!!

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Additional info, added Friday July 23 2004, 11:55 pm:
if anythin i would get an abortion im only 15, and i wouldnt let anyone know only someone to bring me to get it done...

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hismndrismxO answered Monday July 26 2004, 3:47 am:
if you don`t qet your period on time qo to the store and buy a preqnancy test , and if it`s positive you should probably talk to your parent`s about it and decide what you are qoinq to do. hope we helped !

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orphans answered Sunday July 25 2004, 1:41 pm:
i didnt use a condom! im supposed to start my period <--- ummm yea im kinda confused about that * and also the chances r yur about to have a baby if u didnt use a condom so yur pretty much screwed
-good luck with that

-rob

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girdy_goo15 answered Saturday July 24 2004, 9:08 pm:
dear help!,
you can't get an abortion. you should never have had sex if you weren't willing to recieve the possible consequences. it's not the baby's fault that you weren't thinkin. how could you live with
yourself knowing that you killed your baby? but most of all you need to go talk to your parents.
and they have adoption clinics for your baby. go to one of those insead of an abortion clinic.
*~~~shana~~~*

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ShudaBeenAbLonde answered Saturday July 24 2004, 5:05 pm:
Well .. take a home pregnancy test .. if it shows up positive ... have someone take you to the doctor and have you checked .. then if u are pregnant .. you know .. :-(

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xOchErrytWistOx answered Saturday July 24 2004, 11:44 am:
If you don't get your period soon, you should go to a clinic. do not risk visiting your regular doctor if you do not want your parents to know. if u dont want an abortion, you could put the baby up for adoption after it was born. if you go to the clinic, they will tell you all your options. before you go to the clinic, you could take a pregancy test (found at a drug store) to see if you really are pregant. the risks are not just pregancy, but there is a high chance that you could've contracted an STD, so you should also get checked out for STDs
xoxo
ali

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Roxybabii922 answered Saturday July 24 2004, 11:16 am:
Tell one of your closest friends whos parents you are close with too, that way someone will know and your friends parents would take you, in the end you're gonna end up having to tell your parents about it, or they'll find out on their own and you dont want that happening

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Just_Being_True answered Saturday July 24 2004, 8:45 am:
Well first off if you plan on having sex again, you need to use protection!!!!!!!

But if you don't get your period go to the store and buy a pregnanct test just to be sure.

Now about the abortion, just be careful b/c that plan may back-fire in your face. Eventually you will feel the need to tell your parents and also when you get older and have kids. YOu will wonder how you could ever kill one of them. But it is definelty your decsion. if you feel that an abortion is the right choice then go with it. But definetly go to a teen helath center and get some more info on all your options before you finalize anything.

Hope i helped..........Alina

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kevin1986 answered Saturday July 24 2004, 4:12 am:
If you don't have your period,then hopefully you're just late. But you could be pregnant. You could talk to your doctor. But please don't get an abortion. Live with your choice and put the kid up for adoption. Maybe you'll be careful next time. Your parents won't kill you,but you have no right to kill that kid.

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Sw3eTh3aRt<3xOxO answered Saturday July 24 2004, 12:46 am:
first of all u shuldnt have un protected sex with n e wun ever un less u plan on egttin pregent did u loose ur virginity to this guy?.....if u dunt get ur period tht buy a pregnace test<bad speller srry)n u realli need to tell ppl about it if u r n personly i think a abortion is out of question because a child shouldnt b killed just becaue of ur stupid mistake...n u better watch out for other things not just gettin pregent there r alot of dieses tht alot of ppl have soo no more unprotected sex ur onli 15............n an abortion is alot of money n if u have enuff money to do tht then u have enuff money to put ur baby up for adatption....but this is onli if ur pregant!
well i hope i helped a little...
*_xOxO_*
danielle

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bRoWnIeCaKE69 answered Saturday July 24 2004, 12:15 am:
ok, mi first question is how old r u...and how long have u been on ur period,..if u r pregnat..u should tell ur parents..yes they will be mad...but maybe ur not pregnat...not to be mean or anything just use protection ok babe? i think u have learned ur leason if ur not pregnat and i stronly advice a pregnacy magazine...there is always crap in there about how to tell people and that should help sumwht...i will pray for u chick!!! olive ya ashley

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xHeartxOfxGoldx answered Saturday July 24 2004, 12:06 am:
Take a pregnancy test....If that turns out positive(as in yes) then you have your options

Adoption
Keeping the baby
Abortion

Signs of pregnancy are nausea,fatigue,uncomfortablness,cravings etc.

^Just to let you know if you don't have a test

Good Luck..:) if you need anymore advice just im me or leave one in my inbox


xoxo

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vanna answered Friday July 23 2004, 11:58 pm:
u need to go to the store and get a test that tells u if u r pregent or not or go talk to yur docter and make sure yur not sick but if u get a sore in yur mouth or on yur body that isnt painful that means u have sifiles. and if u dont get yur period that means u r pregnet and if u r goin to have sex again wit yur boy frend then u really need to talk to yur docter he or she will tell u bout the diseases u can get and take ma advice were a condom and take birth control but talk to yur docter before talkin birth control


luv vanna

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cowsoink answered Friday July 23 2004, 11:45 pm:
ok well i think u should take one of thoes ept things on the tv they say that it can tell 5 dayz befor ur missed period

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orphans answered Friday July 23 2004, 11:42 pm:
well i think that if you dont get your period you should get one a those e-z-read pregnency test thingers. if it says your pregnent talk to the guy who "im-pregnented" you and then you need to go to the doctor if its true .. and you ARE pregnent you need to tell your parents. hope i helped! xox
-Jess

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grlhockeyplaya77 answered Friday July 23 2004, 11:41 pm:
First of all you always need to use a condom! If you dont have your period then wether you like it or not you have to talk to your parents. Theres only a few days out of the month that you can get pregnent and they are shortley after your period if im correct. If you miss your period before talking to your parents find an adult that you can trust to get you a pregnecy test and find out if you are or not. If you are then you have to deal with it...and if your not learn from your mistakes!
I hope I helped
Britt

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