xxhotsexycutiexx answered Tuesday July 6 2004, 12:25 pm: yah u kinda got it rite...i dunno y they do things like that i guess its just a natural thing that ppl feel the need to do them! usually guys finger the gurl to make it easier for them n make them feel a lil hornier...n handjobs brings ur partener to orgasm..n w/e...its just how it is...u'll understand it better when u gro older ;) xoxo effy [ xxhotsexycutiexx's advice column | Ask xxhotsexycutiexx A Question ]
xxbabiiphatt4xx answered Friday July 2 2004, 3:16 pm: FinGerinG is sometimes used to make sex easier...it makes it easier so it doesnt hurt as much for the girl...also I read somewhere that Girls cant have an orgasm unless a spot located 3 inches above their vagina is hit called a g spot and they cant have an orgasm from plain sex... [ xxbabiiphatt4xx's advice column | Ask xxbabiiphatt4xx A Question ]
xxshortythugxx69 answered Friday July 2 2004, 2:33 pm: well, youre 13, and i hope, for you as a person that youre not considering doing these things just yet, but the point of fingering a girl, is to feel them and know just how and where their body reacts the strongest to pleasure, fingering CAN bring a girl to oragsm and it could also be used to "strech" a girl out but it isnt quite affective, and as for handjobs, they are a way to bring guys to an orgasm and the same for the girls, know how they like it ex:fast,rough,slow,gentle etc. and an orgasm is the body reacting to the amount of pleasure it is holding, and it ejects a liquid (cum) out of the body, and is known to prove satisfaction =D
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lilshortnsweet answered Thursday July 1 2004, 1:50 pm: the point of fingering a girl is to give them pleasure instead of having sex,and yes to give a handjob its like you getting fingered its just plesure, so i hoped i anserd ur question if not go aheah and ask some more [ lilshortnsweet's advice column | Ask lilshortnsweet A Question ]
chealynn answered Thursday July 1 2004, 1:48 am: fingering is just the lesser version of having sex- at least thats how i see it! i've never thought of it as to 'stretch them out' but it would be useful to get fingered before having sex to lessen pain. fingering is for pleasure! it mainly wont bring a girl to an orgasm unless there is some sort of clitoris stimulation though (but it still feels very good). when you give a guy a handjob you are basically maturbating him. it is very pleasureful for him and usually brings him to an orgasm. :) have fun, be safe. [ chealynn's advice column | Ask chealynn A Question ]
KoTaKiTtAy44 answered Thursday July 1 2004, 12:38 am: its all for pleasure hunny! lol i mean they may not bring the guy or gal to an orgasm but it is assured to bring great pleasure to your parthner! lol <3/Dakota
HollyAnn2282 answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 6:18 pm: You finger a girl for her own pleasure just like you give a guy a handjob for his. Some people might use fingering to "Stretch them out" But i've never truely heard of it that way.
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GoDdeSsOfEveRyThInG answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 12:24 pm: You sound very smart for a 13 year old girl. Fingering is usually done to stretch girls out but for other girls it is pleasure and could bring them to orgasm.
Hand jobs usually always bring a guy to orgasm (when he cums) and if it doesnt, then it will most likely give him something called blue balls. It really hurts guys balls because the sperm didnt come out. It hurts them to walk and even move. Good luck!
MissJ1414 answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 8:17 am: Fingering feels very nice.. I say it get you in the mood and that might be one reason. I have only had like one orgasm from being fingered but i wouldn't say that that's what its for. And it does open you up so the guy doesn't have to tough of a time getting it in ther ;)!!
jimah answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 5:54 am: i know this might sounds silly but fingering a girl is actually to enable the men's thingy to enter easily...bring orgasm...i don't know but i think so...i'm not sure...and people say doing this is just for fun...and they say it's a relaxing moment!! [ jimah's advice column | Ask jimah A Question ]
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