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My brother
My brother william always seems disapointed in me. i really dont want him to be dissopinted in me, but i just dont know what to do :( im not really shure if anyone can help me, but i would really like it if someone would just say something about it
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Just ask him right out if he's disapointed in you. If he is tell him you want to know why he is. Then you can do what you think will help. :-)
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I know what you mean. I feel the same exact way around one of my brothers *Lemon*. He seems to be annoyed by me a lot...and we would always get into HUGE fights about the littlest things.
He hates when I nag...and the one time I asked him nicely (instead of nagging)about the internet (and this was the second time I asked because I wanted to know if he got the call he was waiting for so I could finally go online) he snapped and got all mad and yelled at me and then I ran upstairs and then usually after...the fights we have just die down. And it was his birthday. Well...this one didn't die down.
I asked my older sister Keri if I could go watch a movie at her house with my brother, my sisters, and two of their friends. Lemon overheard me ask and said no I dont want you around me anymore...and he never says something like that and even though it doesn't seem like a BIG DEAL...it still hurt and I cried and cried. Then he came into my room (and he's never done something like this before) and he hugged me and
there were tears in his eyes...and we talked just before he was about to go out with his friends. And we talked about a lot of things (but it was mostly private and about how we are alike in a lot of ways) and when we were hugging I slipped in a happy birthday and we were just hugging still. After this we didn't get into much fights...and this happened on Dec. 8th 2003.
Now it's February 9, 2004...and we haven't gotten into a big fight like that since.
We learned to understand each other more (and yes, there were still little fights) but that's always going to happen.
I guess the point is...is that older sibling can make you feel like a speck compared to them. And everything can be going well and the next thing you know you guys are biting each others heads off fighting about little things. But the thing is he's your brother and you must love him...just try to leave the room if you think you are going to fight...or if you think he's disappointed to you. But honestly? I DO NOT think he is disppointed in you. If anything...he just wants space...and I'm sure he acts like this to other people. But it doesn't mean he's disappointed in you. If you want him to not be "disappointed" in you anymore...then show his some things (drawings, poems, stories, how well you can play a sport, etc.) and just show him what you are good at and talk to him more.
Hope I helped!
~gL~
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hey allie its me william its not like im really dissapointed in you or ne that im really dissapointed in you infact i dono what your talken bout just tall me k?
your bro, william
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Do you know why he's so disapointed in you?
Kortni*
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um... talk to him// thats all i can say
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Well since I dont now why hes disapointed with you and cant really help you there. Be nicer to him or make better decisions.
-shay :-)
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dear allie,
maybe you should take some time and sit down and talk with him try to be nice to him first though an dif you already are then you really should sit down and talk to him me and my sister went threw that stage maybe he is going threw sot=methin hard but u love him and he shouldnt take things out on u
hope it all works out
sincerly,
lexi
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