Hey I am going out with this guy i like and then i have all these other guys i like and i want them to I really dont wanna break his heart cuz i love him to death But theres these other guys that i have been out with and they Like me and i like them to I love them what am i to do
xDarkorchid answered Saturday December 27 2003, 3:27 pm: hmm yah..you have wayy to many boys you like chickie..you need to stick with one man and decide which one is really right for you.. i mean which one treats you better..and all that stuff..apparently you havent fell in love yet and cherished one boy..when that happens he'll be the one you like and no other boy will even matter [ xDarkorchid's advice column | Ask xDarkorchid A Question ]
ScaperJess answered Thursday December 25 2003, 6:47 pm: Well I'm guessing your young, if you care about this guy your seeing then wouldn't it be better to break up so you don't end up cheating or something similar? It's understandable, this type of thing happens all the time, and if you feel like this I don't think its fair to you or him to tie yourself half heartedly down... "Browsing" is normal but really wanting to "shop" when you already "bought" is not good... Your young its ok to end it and see what else is out there if you really want to. That’s better for some people, and probably better for him to...be fair to him and yourself, if you really want these other guys then perhaps that’s the way you should go... [ ScaperJess's advice column | Ask ScaperJess A Question ]
MichiruKaiou answered Thursday December 25 2003, 2:29 am: Just follow what your heart desires. Actually think for a moment what is the right decision. Personally I would stay with the boyfriend you have now, he's been good to you hasn't he? If he has then you should definitely stay with him, if he's abused you in anyway, then just end the relationship. Like the old saying, 'there are plenty other fish in the sea'.. and lucky for you.. you have many fish waiting just for you! [ MichiruKaiou's advice column | Ask MichiruKaiou A Question ]
hiwatari answered Tuesday December 23 2003, 10:59 pm: you keep on saying "like". this is an old quote, but one that helped my friend out of a relationship that would've been a sexual abusive relationship- "don't wait for the one you can live with. wait for the one you can't live without." if you only "like" them, don't even think of it. the only one you will truly love is the one God has destined for you. or Buddha. or.... whatever deity you worship. [ hiwatari's advice column | Ask hiwatari A Question ]
SunshineLvr91 answered Tuesday December 23 2003, 10:03 pm: I think you should stick with your boyfriend. You definetly dont want to break his heart or cheat on him. What if he finds out? That would make you feel bad. So stick with him and see how far that goes! :) [ SunshineLvr91's advice column | Ask SunshineLvr91 A Question ]
dragonrider answered Tuesday December 23 2003, 9:25 pm: well there is a difference between love and like and i would sk yourself how much you really l;ike your boy friend before you leave him high and dry [ dragonrider's advice column | Ask dragonrider A Question ]
MFS answered Tuesday December 23 2003, 9:23 pm: Personally, after reading that, I'm going to recommend you not go out with any of them.
OneMan answered Tuesday December 23 2003, 5:22 pm: Quit telling yourself that you "like" all of them. What you like is the attention, and probably couldn't bear to have some of it taken away. But nevertheless, you're going to have to make a decision. In the event that some of them find out what's going on and they all decide that they no longer wish to share your company. Then, my dear....YOU may be the one that's broken-hearted. Just decide which one offers the most of what it is you seek, and if you can tell yourself that a monogamous relationship is ok and believe it, then settle down and enjoy REALLY getting to know one man...instead of BARELY getting to know several. [ OneMan's advice column | Ask OneMan A Question ]
koshii answered Tuesday December 23 2003, 10:58 am: This has been a problem throughout the ages. I'm assuming you're female, but don't hesitate to correct me. If you were male, the answer would be simple--be Mormon. (they SAY they don't do that any more, but we believe them why...?)
Conversely, you have the option of becoming the queen or Empress of a small country and taking a harem, as in the old (old) days. Queens of places like Troy and the middle-european countries, back in the days of Matriarchs, would take as many lovers and consorts as they wished. This seems like a good course of action.
If you believe in monogamy, obviously you're SOL. Pick one by a fortune-teller or a coin toss or just swear them all off and be asexual. Really, it's not too bad of a choice--if they all like you, just be glad someone does. [ koshii's advice column | Ask koshii A Question ]
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