Ok, I still really like my ex boyfriend. But, he has a new gilfriend, that he supposedly really likes. *Rolls eyes* But, my friends and I have caught him SO many times staring at me while I walk in the halls at school. And I wrote my friend this hilarious note, and he read it and laughed. Like, a lot. But, he doesn't make any effort to talk to me or anything. My friends think he still has feelings for me, but he's with this other girl and he's afraid to pursue anything with me. My friends also think I should try making him jealous and "flaunt it". Any ideas on how to do that?
Kayla13 answered Sunday December 21 2003, 11:53 pm: well u still have fellings for your ex and you want him back but it seems he doesn't notice no u no more and he has a new Girl well you need to be brave and call him and up tlk to him about it and then you cam be friends once as you were before and maybe that relationship will grow into a more serious relationship [ Kayla13's advice column | Ask Kayla13 A Question ]
SunshineLvr91 answered Sunday December 21 2003, 7:33 pm: I think that you should through hints at him. He's acting like he still has feelings for you, so take a chance! Talk to him and see how far that goes! Then mail me about whats next! [ SunshineLvr91's advice column | Ask SunshineLvr91 A Question ]
1800Advice answered Sunday December 21 2003, 7:08 pm: Well, I don't have any doubts you guys still have feelings for each other,and it's very possible he's trying to make you jealous, just like your thinking about doing to him. But think about this...If it's bothering you this much by what he's doing to you, why do the same to him? If you still like him, then you know that it'll just hurt him to do that. I say the best way to go about it is to straight up tell him. No guys like to play James Bond. Besides, making him jealous will do nothing but push him farther away. And judging by this email, i seriously doubt you want to do that. Not to mention, the guy you played would get hurt in the process of the whole ordeal. So, my word of advice is to just be honest. Tell him how you feel and go from there. [ 1800Advice's advice column | Ask 1800Advice A Question ]
FernGully answered Sunday December 21 2003, 1:19 pm: You need to learn to let go. Even if he still stares at you and what not, its over and if he has a girlfriend then he has no business with you other than perhaps being friends. Maybe thats what he is looking for? Either way, don't pursue him at all, if he is interested in you again then he will end thing with his girlfriend. If he stays with her then there is nothing left between the two of you. [ FernGully's advice column | Ask FernGully A Question ]
Turc answered Sunday December 21 2003, 12:04 pm: Honestly? I think he's your ex-boyfriend and you should get over him. If he's not talking to you, it's obvious that maybe he DOES like this new girl. The truth hurts, but that's life. You have no idea what thoughts are running through his head when he's "staring at you", even if you could just be imagining it. Don't assume anything, because it will make the situation worse. If you try to get him back by making him jealous, I'm sure the other girl will get angry. Even if she doesn't say anything, if you "flaunt it", people will began to look at you in a darker light- like you'll do anything for anyone (cough cough) and I'm sure that's not what you want. [ Turc's advice column | Ask Turc A Question ]
shay*shay answered Sunday December 21 2003, 11:09 am: I think your previous boyfriend is just getting over you. If he still liked you a lot dont you think you would still be going out? Even though I do know some things to make the jealous! Try getting a new boyfriend and pretend you like him a lot! Laugh at his jokes etc. Hope you get what you want!
-shay :-) [ shay*shay's advice column | Ask shay*shay A Question ]
ScaperJess answered Sunday December 21 2003, 10:37 am: I remember this question before and as I said then and will say now... let it be with him... if things are meant to be with you to than they will be but why purposely go out and be the "home wrecker" if you did that to me i certainly wouldn't want to date you after! Good luck with that... [ ScaperJess's advice column | Ask ScaperJess A Question ]
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