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What to do?
Okay this guy (call him Pierre) used to like me and i liked him n stuff. Then he asked me out, but i said no. On monday he invited me to his party. On thursday Pierre was passing out papers and said my friend likes you he thinks your cute. So I was like cool who is it! He wouldnt tell me though. He said unless i tell him who I like he wont tell me. So the next day Im trying to ask pierre who it was, but he avoided me. He looked at me by the sides of his book and made faces at me stuck out his tounge and eventually he made a kiss with his lips at me. And my friend (call her Sarah) saw him wen he did that too. She and acouple other girls think the mystery guy is him. They asked him if its him and he said EWW no!Though he said he liked a girl (call her Mary). So then finally Pierre told me the mystery guy doesnt like me anymore and he thinks Im a loser! And then I tried to bribe him by telling him I knew alot of girls who like him, but Pierre said guys dont care about that. But still he wants to know who I like though! And then this other guy (call him Chriss) told me he over heard Pierre say ya I wouldnt blame the guy for not liking her she IS a loser. So my questions are, Why does he still want to know who I like? If he thinks Im a loser why did he ask me out and invite me to his party? Is he the mystery guy? Why did he react weird when my friend asked if it was him? Why does he call me a loser? and does he still like me?
~~~~~~HELP~~~~~please!~~~~~~~~~TODAY!!!!~~~~~~
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Yeah, he probably likes you. He's probably trying to make you mad so you say who you like, or something like that. Boys will do that.
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What a Coincidence!My name is Sarah too! But anyway, in a way, i think he still likes you, but is afraid to admit it, maybe if you tell him you like him (if you do) then he might admit that he likes you too! Or maybe he did like you, but he thought that you didnt like him, so..he got over you. And guys will call you losers, maybe its his way of flirting..i dunno..But he probably acted weird when ur friends asked him if it was him, because maybe it is, or was! I dont know what he thinks/feels about you, but u should probably let him know how you feel!
i hope i helped!
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"Why does he still want to know who I like?" Most likely if he is asking for a friend or himself, guys want to know if they even stand a chance or they are liked back before they are put on the spot... the who do you like this is a way of finding out if the guy you like is them and if its not then no harm done... "If he thinks I’m a loser why did he ask me out and invite me to his party?" He probably said that to sound cool, or he his upset you won't answer the question he asked, that of course hurts his pride in away so to make up for the fact you wont fess up he claims its because you're a loser. I'd say in fact he honestly does not believe that himself... he probably thinks very highly of you... that's how many guys combat humiliation or hurt feelings. "Is he the mystery guy?" Very possible... but he won't admit it for fear of getting turned down... just think If he asked you out why would he want to hook you up with a friend?... "Why did he react weird when my friend asked if it was him?" He doesn't want you to know unless he knows you like him back for fear of rejection, so naturally he denies all allegations that it is him... that is a very common thing to do... If it was not him then of course he would say no it's not... but logic says it's him... "Why does he call me a loser?" see above ;)... "and does he still like me?" My guess is yes... but I can't guarantee it... best way to know is tell him you like him... that is of course only if you do...
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Not ONLY does he like you, my dear, he's deathly afraid of letting you know AND being caught with his heart wide open. he wants to make SURE that you don't like anyone else or at least that the possibity that you MIGHT like him exists before he let's his feelings be known. The next time that he approaches you and makes m ention of someone thinking you're a loser, just half-smile and say, well, I've never seen someone spend so much time thinking about a loser. That's ok, though. I know alot of people throughout my life aren't going to like me so I better get used to it now. And then change the subject as if what he just said meant about as much to you as the process for squaring binomials deos an english major. he'll come around.
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