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..ok...soo....its been a few months since my boyfriend and I broke up, and I was upset, but now I'm ok with it. And he has a new girlfriend, but yet...my friends say he always watches me when I walk past, but he tries to hide it (he doesn't do a very good job). And when you ask him if he would ever go back out with me, He's like No I'm happy with (we'll call her Bob) Bob. So then what's with the watching me crap? Could somebody explain it to me? Ahhh. Thanks.
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People are silly that way. You were part of his life, so you will be for a while. It's hard to just pick up and go, and way past the attachment phase you'll still be _important_ or _interesting_ ...exes and ex-crushes tend to be.
Eyes and brain-stems can't always be overridden by brains, don't worry unless he starts reacting more worryingly. If it really creeps you out, let him know or spend less time in his field of view.
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Porr girl. It's like this. Let's say you have a car and you hate it, enough to get rid of it. Once you do...a little time goes by and you see the car again. You remember how good it looks, how well it drove and how much you loved it when you had it. Eberytime someone drives it down the street, there's going to be a part of your heart that aches because the car always looks better and better because it's not yours anymore. Even if you have bought a brand new, 2004 BOBcat. Yours still looks the best. What he's doing is reminiscing. The good times are flooding back now and that's the only way he can allow it to show.
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I remember the days in which the same situation presented itself to me. I didn't understand why My boyfriend, we'll call him Trevor, would always keep his eyes on my every move, yet we were no longer part of each others lives in the relationship sense. Guy's always want what they can't have. It's as simple as that. He can't have you and this other girl, so he is physically with her while he's still eyeing you. Maybe he doesn't want a relationship with you...as much as he doesn't want you to have a relationship with anyone else. So my advice is to flaunt it. Make him realize that he gave up something far better than what he has now...make him as jealous as can be. And if you are in the position where he wants you back...and that's what you want...then that's great...and if you don't want him back.. and he still wants to be with you...you'll have him at your fingertips.. then you definitely have power over him...and that's a great feeling.
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Sounds to me like he still likes you. He trys to cover it up because hes got a girlfriend and he doesnt want to lose her. Hes still attracted to you in a way and he cant help it. Guys are always lieing like that.
-shay :-)
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ewww he is watching u crap what a freak oh and it is called break up syndrom he cant help klooking at u just like u cant help talking bout him it will stop in a lil while just be patient
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he might still like you but doesnt want to show that he misses u!
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Perhaps he looks and thinks of what could have been, or looks to take a trip down memory lane... just because you break up with someone doesn't mean you never think of them or look at them again... he very well could really like his new girl and could very well never want to date you again... but you know you did make memories... don't think to deeply into this... it probably has no significant meaning.
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