Question Posted Thursday December 11 2003, 9:16 pm
This guy likes me..a lot! He is nice funny and all, but i cant picture myself with him..And yet when he went out with another girl..i got a weird feeling like i was jealous. And i could have gotten a boyfriend, but i was afraid he wouldnt like me anymore. I feel like i dont like him, but now im confused..What should i do???
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? ScaperJess answered Friday December 12 2003, 8:45 pm: This is not you being a freak or anything not normal, when someone likes you it is flattering weather or not you like them back... it can make you feel special and good about yourself, you don't want him to like anyone else because that mean that no longer will he want you and that means no longer are you special to him... you don't want to lose his attention because you like it. This is or basic unconscious selfish urges to want to be the best female... the one that all the guys want... we all want to be loved... Just try your best not to let him get to you... live your life, don't pass up any more date deals. You can't change these feelings but you can sure suppress them I've done it... and eventually they seem to disappear especially if you can find someone else... [ ScaperJess's advice column | Ask ScaperJess A Question ]
xlilblueangel116 answered Friday December 12 2003, 8:28 pm: Well, I think you should move on, he did. He got a girlfriend. There are a lot of guys out there are better than him. Maybe you got jealous over him but you would get over it soon and look for a new guy. So don't watse your time on some guy that doesn't even care about you. [ xlilblueangel116's advice column | Ask xlilblueangel116 A Question ]
XCrUnChALiCiOuSX answered Friday December 12 2003, 7:26 pm: I dont think you like him. Its always flattering to have someone like you ,and you dont want that to stop, but maybe you should go out w/ him, if you dont like him, then you cna dump him, and i know you probably dont want to hurt his feelings, but goin out with him would definitely not hurt him! And try to think about if you liked him before he started liking you, and if you did, then u truly like him and if you didnt then ur just flattered, you dont like him! I hope i helped! [ XCrUnChALiCiOuSX's advice column | Ask XCrUnChALiCiOuSX A Question ]
Turc answered Friday December 12 2003, 5:03 pm: You like him whether you like that fact or not. I can tell by the tone of your question.
shay*shay answered Thursday December 11 2003, 10:04 pm: If you cannot picture youself with him it was probably never meant to be. I have just liked guys as friends, but when they get a girlfriend it feels like jealosy too. Its just because you're so used to them hanging around you and flirting with you. If you like him like that its just a strong flirty friendship.KKKK
-shay :-) [ shay*shay's advice column | Ask shay*shay A Question ]
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