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What is going on? And what should I do?
For the ones who have read the Ex-boyfriend Gone Mad and Dreams Column, I need your advice again. OK, so some of you said that I might have feelings for him. And some of you said that I might miss him. I can't like him!!! Number 1: My parents WONT allow it. Number 2: My parents wont let me see him anymore. Number 3: I have a boyfriend that is true to me and is everything I wanted out of a guy. But the love that my boyfriend and I share...it so different. And I don't want to like my EX because I don't want to be a "slut". Plus I don't want to like my EX because I will just end up getting hurt again. But then, WHY am I having dreams about him EVERY night? And today, I did the "ABCDEFG" thing with the soda can and it landed on "J" which is the beginging letter of my EX boyfriends name. I talked to a physic and she said that I am gonna be with this boy for the rest of my life. What do you think she ment by that? Like, am I gonna be with him as a married couple? Or just friends? Or am I just gonna know him for the rest of my life? What are all of the signs about? Why am I getting them anyways? I need your advice ASAP!
P.S. I will be seeing my EX at a play that he is in because my friend is in the same play that my EX is in. Should I talk to him or not? If so, what should I say? Or do??
Sincerely,
CONFUSED!
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baby, its like i've said before part of him is still in u, but that dont mean you want him.
anymore questions write to me.
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Hmmmm, my BMW is in the shop getting a head gasket so, I have to drive a volvo. I don't WANT to drive a Volvo. The shop won't ALLOW me to drive the Beemer. My volvo is a good car and gets me where I have to go with minimum trouble.But, that doesn't mean that I can't WANT to drive my BMW. I do, and I prefer it. You don't have to stop liking him, and I think you haven't. I think you may be giving in to what the "logical" choice is. Staying with who you're with so you avoid the possibility of looking "bad". Please, their are alot bigger things to concern yourself with. Do what's best and obviously right....for you.
And still liking your boyfriend won't make you a slut, dear. Sleeping with them both at the same time will.
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talk to him trust me u r probably just needing that maybe u just like him i know u dont want to but thats how it goes u probably still have a place in ur heart for him and that place will hold him forver
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Dear confused,
I think what the phycic ment was that you will be having dreams of this guy forever. But dont be discouraged you most likley wont. Dont talk to him at the play try to ignore him. Pretend youve never seen him in your life. Your dreams will eventually go away just as long as you stop thinking of him!
-shay :-)
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Try to focus on what you want. Avoid seeing or thinking out your EX as much as possible. Probably the only reason he is still attractive to you is that your parents don't like him. I have found the more time you spend being or talking with your fella, the more you forget about the other guy. It is not easy, and it will take a long time.
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I would try to avoid him for a long and as much as you can and then after a longggggggg while, just start sweet conversation with him again in a way that doesn't lead him on. You guys could even make up and become friends. PHYSICS are fake anyways. What does she know. And there are some other reasons why all that stuff happened. Maybe it is your fate, your destiny to be with your ex. You might break up with your bf now in the future and want to get with him again. Just a little advice.
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