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being fat is it lame for dateing
Well i don't know but i would like to know if being a little fat has to do with any thing i just can't seem to get a girl to like me i'm nice i am a beliver of the Lord what should i do?
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if u can be friend s first mabe that would help cause then that person will know for how u r and not some fat person
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Well, honestly be glad your male, as long as a guy has a great personality many girls will never think twice about you being heavier... You need to get some girl friends, talk to girls around your area online (be careful of course) give them a chance to get to know you for you... also if you are too busy worrying about your weight to stop, talk, and flirt with the girls you might be interested in, well then that might be a problem, you can't really get girls to want to be with you if they think you’re a hermit, shy or don't care...
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You know what... I REALLY hate to say this and it IS sad that society is this way but, I'm sure it does. And the fact that you openly profess a love of the Lord may make SOME people feel a little akward. They may feel as if they're not good enough around you. I applaud you and respect you greatky for you openess. But, the honest truth is. Maybe they don;t know how to be around you without dealing with their own demons. Wait.....God will send you who's best for you.
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Don't worry. Just eat right, take care of yourself, and be friendly. Oh, and pray. It will happen eventually. God didn't want us to be lonely.
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Don't worry, if girls can't except you the way you are. .Don't bother! you're special soemone will come soon!
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look, u being a little fat is nothing! i think it's good to have some meat on ya bones as i do, lol, and i have the same problem but with the guys though, lol, so i think it's only because so far u haven't met the right girl for u, ya know? i think that there just hasn't been one where u two just click right, ya know? but there's absolutely nothin wrong with u, ok? have confidence and it will shine thru and girls like that, lol, so don't worry, one day u'll find the girl of ur dreams and u'll appreciate the wait, well, take care and smile! and keep life sweet!
Mad Love,
Tina
p.s.
check out my site: www.goodcharlotte4life.4t.com
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wow, that's sad... people are just like that i guess... most people are shallow and just don't care what's on the inside. try hanging with some close friends who are girls... it might make you feel better!
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Dear Girl Trouble,
There is no problem being a little fat.Some people look at it that way.I dont i just go 4 the personality.and if thats the way it is with girls now adays then thats just creul.
--Dear Jenna
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Sometimes girls are just like that. They are real shallow sometimes. Just be the nicest and most clean hearted guy you can be and hope for the best!
-shay :-)
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Hey there!
Listen here, i know you're feeling pretty low right now and I REALLy don't want to add on to the troubles, but yes, it is true that girls are sometimes too judgemental. Especially in the looks department. Mostly, you can expect most of the popular girls to ignore you just because you are a little overweight.
Don't fret however, because I was fat once and I was still able to snag a boyfriend. Maybe, all you really have to do is keep yourself open and not cower with rejection. Take pride in your finer qualities and don't ever be insecure about you weight issue. You are who you are and if those girls can't see the good behind the looks then, it's not your loss, but theirs.
Basically I know for a fact that it s**ks bigtime that people reject you because of your looks and that me telling you to keep you head up isn't going to help much. But just listen
The first step of being less insecure, is telling yourself everyday, that you have MANY fine qualities. Tell yourself this, however NEVER deny the fact that you are fat. Never. If you do, you're only setting yourself up for more hurt.
Once you accept the fact that you are fat, you will have fewer problems with rejection. The next step now, is to get a girl. Don't ever think that you aren't worthy of any girl. Ever. Be courageous, ask girls out, but be frank with yourself, are you asking her out coz she's cute? Or coz you like her personality. If it's the former, then you are just like the girls who snubbed you. If it's the latter, then go ahead and have a good time. REmember, insecurity does not work wonders.
If you ever have any other troubles, religion or whatsoever, email me and we can chat. I'd like to help. teri_advice@hotmail.com
God bless, good luck
Actualtruths
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I BET U GIRLS LIKE U AND UR STANDERDS ARE TOO HIGH PEOPLE ARENT GOING TO LIKE U IF U THINK TOO HIGHTLY OF URSLEF IS THERE A SPECIFIC GIRL WHO U LIKE? WELL TELL ME IN MY PERSONL COLUMN AND ILL BE EXTREEMLY HAPPY TO HELP U UR NAME WOULDNT HAPPEN TO BE XANE OLSEN WOULD IT?
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