Question Posted Saturday December 6 2003, 10:35 pm
I am tooo shy I swear. . !!! I really like this guy, but whenever I'm around him I get so nervouse and dontt alk I just sit there! He got mad at me once, because we were doign somethign and I wouldn't sya anything, but when he left I was talking up a storm, taking control! it was like he was soo hott, and Uggh! I don't know what to do. . I'm not sure if he likes me, but I caught him staring at me. . But that doesnt mean he likes me right?? I want to ask him out so badly, but I'm afraid he doesnt like me and I am just too nervous to ask him myself!!!
What I'm trying to ask is, Why am I so nervous around him, and why don't I have the guts to go up to him and tell him that I love him and I really want to go out with him?"
*Sorry about typos* . .if there are any!!! lol
OneMan answered Monday December 8 2003, 5:27 pm: Of course he likes you. That's why he got mad when you wouldn't say anything. He's looking for signs that you like him, too! And when you're that quiet, you're not giving him any!
You're nervous because until you had someone else to tell you what you already knew ( he likes you ), you were afraid of putting yourself on the line and being rejected. Guess what? It's going to happen sometime in life. Even if he rejects you, you'll move on. But...I wouldn't recommend you telling him you LOVE him, yet. [ OneMan's advice column | Ask OneMan A Question ]
musicismyworld answered Sunday December 7 2003, 1:07 am: i totally get the being too shy thing but no need for that two years ago i barely talked now i talk to everyone everwhere u r at a stage and as for asking him out go for it the worst that can happen is for him to say no u gatta do this for yourself thats all i can say u have to help urslef along with this [ musicismyworld's advice column | Ask musicismyworld A Question ]
shay*shay answered Saturday December 6 2003, 10:42 pm: Dear shy,
lol! You seem to be nervous because you cant think of anything to say. You want to talk about the perfect subject, but your brain is going out of control and boggling itself. Just RELAX!!!girl. Stay cool. Try yoga. HAHA j/k.
-shay :-) [ shay*shay's advice column | Ask shay*shay A Question ]
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