i just slept with a classmate of mine. But the problem is i dont know how i will face him at school. Also did i mention his not my boyfriend and i am afraid he'll use it against me. even though we promised each other not to tell anyone even my best friend. Also i am not sure whether he likes me more than just a friend even thought we dont interact that much in school. What do i do?
KissesandHugs21 answered Sunday December 7 2003, 1:20 am: First of all, why did u too sleep with eahc other if u dont even have a comitment, unles su r freinds. . !!! And he cnat us eit against u . .u had it so wut. . just ignore him. . [ KissesandHugs21's advice column | Ask KissesandHugs21 A Question ]
koshii answered Saturday December 6 2003, 8:46 pm: You know, it takes two to tango, and it sounds like I heard some cha-cha-cha in that little story. He's just as "guilty" as you. If you're not otherwise sexually committed to someone, there isn't any problem with what you did. Tell whomever you want, why not? I'd say, brag before he does. Be a man. [ koshii's advice column | Ask koshii A Question ]
shay*shay answered Saturday December 6 2003, 7:12 pm: You have given me no age so this question shall be a bit hard to answer. Why would he use this against you if he did the same thing you did? I think this should remain in the hands of you two. Your little secret as it should be. Though sleeping with a classmate you are no married to would make you a ho, and you shouldnt have done that. Since you cannot erase the past just dont do that in the future.
-shay :-) [ shay*shay's advice column | Ask shay*shay A Question ]
musicismyworld answered Saturday December 6 2003, 6:55 pm: girl sex is like an ice cream truck if u keep handin out the ice-cream for free no one will want to buy the ice-cream i guess what im tryin to say is that if u keep sleeping with people noone will want to commit and to tell u the truth i would be suprised if he accually liked u in the first place guys r just like that and i know that revenge isn the best thing to do but if he tries to use it against u deny it ever happened and spred a rumor around the school that he asked u to and u turned him down or sya that he is only tellin people that because u caught him jacking off to a cartoon and u told his friend but if u really r against lieing to everyone the best thing to do is just admit it and that way he cant use it against u and if u wont do that b-cuz u dont want to be labled as a slut then u shouldnt have slept with him [ musicismyworld's advice column | Ask musicismyworld A Question ]
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