|
friend
ok i was siting with my freind today at lunch and all and i have been hanging with him quite a bit during school and stuff and i am confused about how i feel about him because becuase today i was partners with him in the wieght room and we were having a blast and all then at lunch our friends went to sit with other people so it was just me and him and i was like in my head gosh i feel like a geek and stuff but as we talked i was reall comfy with him and stuff and other times i just think of him as a friend i mean right now i would never be able to see my self kissing hin but i sometimes could see us hugging and stuff and then lik yesterday i was like 'f you matt" kidding around and he knew it and then he was like " i love you too becah" and i was like you love me and he was like sure so i dont know no how i feel casue sometimes i kinda like him like him and other times i only like him as a friend
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Well obviously sometimes you like him and sometimes you only like him as a friend.
Are you confusing love with like, like?
Why don't you think you can feel both?
maybe it's PMS.
]
WOW!I know how you feel because these kind of things always happen to me. All i can say is that don't rush to telling him how you feel. Instead try giving him little clues and carefully observe his reaction, but be carefully like i said before dont rush.
]
maybe u might be getting the love of friends and the love of a boyfriend confused i know how confusing they can be so maybe u should take a day to just spend with him and at the end of the day if u feel like u are into hi tell him how u feel i know easieer said then done but if he is ur real friend then thi shoulnd affect ur friendship but if u both decide that this could ruin ur friendship u r better off stayin good friends
]
maybe you love him as if he were your brother? If you don't wanna lose your friendship, don't ask him out. If you think you could still be friends if you ever broke up with him, ask him out. If you know you would never break up (because the oracle told you so) then ask him out. If you're eating pocky, then can I have some? Strawberry pocky ish da yumm!
]
Hey there!
What you've got sounds to me like a little crush. Not real love or anything serious. relieved? Well, hear me out.
You probably just enjoy the time you two spend with each other and you're so comfy with each other that you feel compelled to be more than just friends. It's a totally normal reaction, but you must differenciate your love for a friend and love.
I've had experiences like this before and really, there are some ways to actually see if you are in love with him or whether you really like him or, just wanna be friends with him. I can't explain it all in a single letter, so email me if you want to know, but I'll just tip you on some stuff that I think is going on.
He's probably cute right? That's probably why you feel attracted to him. The physical attracted. Second, you're good friends right? So that gives you two a good bond. But third. You don't got it yet.
Third is the fact that you know all his faults and his weaknesses and yet you really like him despite. Now that you don't have. If you do, then maybe you're getting something more serious than you think.
I'd love to discuss it with you more, just feel free to email me at teri_advice@hotmail.com
Anyhow, good luck,
actualtruths
]
As of now, I think you should tell him how you feel, without taking any drastic measures. Tell him that you think of him as more than a friend sometimes, and ask how he feels about that. Maybe he feels the same way? Glad to be of service.
Indie*
]
Come on. Once you like someone " and stuff ", you're no longer able to like them "as a friend" only. You know you like him and we know you like him. The problem is, you're afraid that if you DO make the "mistake" of voicing it openly and without reticence, your feelings may not be reciprocated and you're left feeling dejected.
Come on,'Becah, what were you looking for here? For me to simply tell you that you do like him? Ok, you do. Now, what are you going to do about it? Sit on it, and whine incessantly when you fail to tell him, he moves on and ends up with someone else. Either color the water or get off the pot. Good luck.
]
There's nothing wrong with how you feel. Not sure how old you are, but when you are a teen there are lots of hormones and changes going on, as I'm sure you know. Well, those can be so powerful that they can influence who you see sexually.
You don't have to freak out that you might be gay, in case that is a fear of yours. I think, and it's been said in answers to other questions, that people are very quick to try to fit others and themselves into pre-made boxes.
Just enjoy your friendship for what it's worth. If you feel that it's going farther than friendship, and you are cool with it, then do what you feel is right. Feel good about yourself and the unique friendship that you have and just let whatever happens happen.
]
Ahhh! This is the perfect story. You start off as good friends and then you end up in a great position! You have no problem here exept the friend part. Is is personality nice? Are you atracted to him? Let your heart decide on that one, other then that your lucky to be in his eyes!
-shay :-)
]
More Questions: |