Celena answered Friday December 5 2003, 1:14 pm: Well, the first thing you should do is include something I can call you with your question. Thus, diving again into the bag of horrible names which I give to people who don't name themselves, I dub thee Gertrude.
Ok, Gertrude, what you should do is endlessly obsess about this guy, follow him around, doodle his name with little hearts on your peachy folders, buy yourself a ring with his first initial carved in it, if you live near enough, set up a tent and camp out on his doorstep, call his phone at odd hours of the night, email him every hour on the hour (make sure you send lot of forwards and surveys about yourself), oh and buy him a 2004 Chevy Corvette, but send it to my address.
Come ON, Gertrude, what did you think I would say? If he's not into you, he's not into you. That's it, the end. You guys can become friends if you feel comfortable enough with him and yourself to do that, but for now, that's the extent of anything that might happen between you two. You can't MAKE someone like you, Gertrude, that's just the way things are.
SMINT answered Thursday December 4 2003, 8:29 pm: continue living? Really, it isn't the end of the world. Tons of people go through this, just move on. [ SMINT's advice column | Ask SMINT A Question ]
DearBritney answered Thursday December 4 2003, 6:38 pm: Hey Gurl-
Don't worry. There are plenty of other fish in the sea, as the saying goes. If it really bothers you that you can't be together, try to just become great friends first. Try taking the relationship a little bit further later...
shay*shay answered Thursday December 4 2003, 6:28 pm: This is a typical problem. You and millions of other people think the same thing. There really is nothing you can do about somebodys feelings. Just hope for the best!
-shay :-) [ shay*shay's advice column | Ask shay*shay A Question ]
ScaperJess answered Thursday December 4 2003, 6:21 pm: Well that is often the way it is, believe me your not alone on this one... Just remember crushes don't last forever and just because this one is not interested in you back does not mean others won't, best advice? Gaze from a far, drool, whatever till you can find another guy that strikes your fancy, hopefully he will be interested back and then you might be able to have a relationship... [ ScaperJess's advice column | Ask ScaperJess A Question ]
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