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Asking someone out.
I like this girl at my school but she is 1 year older than me and in 1 grade ahead of me. She is on my bus and lives really close to me. I dont think she is very popular or has a boyfriend witch is good because im not very popular I mean I have a lot of friends but we are not in the popular group. How should I ask this girl out, do you think its even worth asking her out? Its so hard for me to think of what to say plus I dont know when to asker her out.
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Dear Asking Someone Out,
How well do you know this girl? Do you guys talk to each other often? Do you think she likes you? When it comes to age, age doesn't matter. Its how much you guys feel about each other that counts. I once dated a guy that was 2 years younger than me. 14 and 11. Nobody made fun of us. They were mostly jealous. If you guys really like each other and if you feel comfortable dated someone that's 1 year older than you, then I say go for it and see how it turns out. I'd like to know how everything goes!
Sincerely,
MiSSc
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Dear Asking someone out,
Lots of boys these days get a friend to ask a girl out for them. You could consider that or you could just ask her out yourself. You never know maybe she has been liking you for awhile too. You will never know if you dont take a chance...
Hope i helped,
Britt
P.S- Good Luck
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Of course she is worth asking out. If you really like her ask her by a note or i person girls love that
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I am sort of in the sam situation except in vice versa. I like this boy in a grade below me and he likes me but won't ask me out. In your situation I think you should ask her out, ask her out anytime it really doesn't matter. It also doesn't matter if she is popular or if you are popular, if you like someone ask them out. And think of this, since she lives next to you you don't have to drive that far to pick her up on dates lol(laugh out loud) but that doesn't even matter. Just treat her really nice and be polite and she'll love you. Trust me, I am a girl I know this stuff. If you like my answer come and chat with me later my user name is lilsportslova321
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Get to know her, you said she rides your bus; well first you need to sit down flirt and talk to her. Flirting is a great form of flattery and it should make her feel special. Generally speaking its a good idea to talk to and get to know the girl before you ask her out. Get her sn if you have AOL or any other instant messengers. If you get it know her a little better than it will make it easier and much less strange to ask her out... Just be swave, once you have talked to her a few times then go for it and ask her, I'm guessing since you ride the bus you probably do not drive, so one day ask her if she would like to come by your house and watch a move or something, she lives near by so it should be do able. Something simple like "hey you should stop by sometime, we could watch a movie or something" or " you know do you have any plans (insert day), because I was thinking if you like to you could come by and hang out" these are not actually asking her to be your gf but by doing this she knows your interested and if she stops by before she leaves you can pop the "so I was wondering, would you go out with me?"... GOOD LUCK!!
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frist you got to figure out if she is dateing someone.then you have to find out if she likes you.if she doesn't like you theres no reason to ask her out. if she does like you you should ask her out on a daythat is ramantic to her,like valentis day or here birthday.ask here on a holiday.maybe you should start it out by telling here how much and how long you've liked here.then pop the ? in a sudle and yet ramantice.
your advicer
-babiegirl
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Just say "do you want to go out with me?" She could say no but you'd get over it
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Well, I will answer your questions in order.
1) If you decide you want to ask her out, just say, "I care about you alot, and I was wondering if you would go out with me." Simple as that.
2) Of course it is worth trying, but you need to be realistic as well. First of all, how old exactly are you two? If you are 9 and 10, then the age difference matters a LOT more then if you were, say, 15 and 16. It sounds like there are no obvious barriers to you two going out (other then the SMALL age differnce, which isn't really a major problem), and actually the fact that you take the same bus and live close to each other should help out.
3) Refer to #2
4) Anywhere, as long as it is appropriate. On the bus would be fine if she is not busy talking to her friends, ect., or anywhere else for that matter would be fine too. Just dont ask at weddings, funerals, when she is busy with her friends, in emergancy rooms/during times of crisis, or when wiring a bomb. On the phone would be fine too.
In the end, it is your decision weather or not to ask her out, and you must be prepared for the possibility of rejection, and also for the possibility of her saying yes! Whatever you decide to do, just remember that this isn't the last girl you will ever know or go out with. Good luck!
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Hey! Get to know her first. A relationship will barely work if you don't know the person. Become friends with this girl, and see where you go from there. That'll be the best! If you need any more help feel free to ask me!
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