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what's the deal?
Alright, i just got back from hanging out with this guy (sry another guy prob hehe). well he and i like eachother and he kept talking about how he wanted to kiss me. However he never did. I know he isnt shy, because he definetly isnt if you knew him. So what's holding him back? He almost kissed me today, but then sorta changed his mind i guess...what could the problem be? I think he isn't sure if i want him to or not> How can I tell him that yes, I want him to kiss me, without freaking him out?
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Kissing a guy is not an easy thing to do so Im not going to tell you to just wing it. Just try to get a close vibe. Hug him, laugh at his jokes etc. He will want you so bad he wont be able to resist!
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Simple. Tell him. Hell, this is the new century. You won't be chastised for exerting your sexuality. And, I'd bet the Pope's last dollar that noone will hog-tie you and emblazon your bountiful breats with a scarlet "A". We men can be a little funny sometime and may just need the proverbial kick in that part that makes us get off of it. If you're still a bit hesitant to "make the first move", try this. The next time you're out together and feel the time is right, take his chin (so he can't scramble away in total petrification) pull him gently to you as you lean in, and plant one on him. That removes the pressure of his having to make the move (which is what I feel the problem is) and still allows you to retain your ever so guarded " respectable " status.
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Hey, this guy is probably just nervous. If he already told you that he wanted to kiss you, I think he's dropping hints, but is too nervous to go for it himself. There really is no serious problem, he's just nervous. Let him know you're okay with him kissing you, or you make the move and go for it, that'll break the ice. I hope everything works out for you, good luck! And don't hesitate to ask me any other questions!
-Kachiri*
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you shouldnt have to tell him if he wants to kiss you badly enough and is telling you he does tell him "just shut up and kiss" because it really does work hehe good luck
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Why do you need to tell him that you want him to kiss you? Just lean in and kiss him yourself. Obviously he wants to if he's telling you that he does. When it comes to these things guys can be just as shy as girls. He's probably scared of you rejecting him, and by not kissing him when he tells you he wants to kiss him you're only making it worse. when he says that he's totally hinting for you to do it.
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