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Question Posted Monday November 24 2003, 4:08 pm

i dont no if i am straight bi or a lesbian, i mean i always have the hots for guys but sometimes i catch my self checking out a girl its not all the time becuase then i would no but every once in a while i will check one out and i dont no why i would be like oo she has a nice butt or something like that even though i no i lean towards guys but i need help

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OneMan answered Sunday November 30 2003, 4:15 pm:
Well, the question would be, "How far do you allow your mind to go when thinking of these other women"? Do you see yourself simply admiring their physiques or beauty? Or do you see yourself possibly sweating the walls, screaming aloud while in the midst of their company? If you still find yourself leaning toward men, I'd opt for bisexuality. If so, hell, enjoy it. More for you to choose from, I say. If you see yourself just saying, " Oh, she has a nice butt, rack, etc., etc.," then I'd probably chalk it up to your simply admiring what you secretly wished for yourself. Hell, it may just be that like me, you recognize the beauty of women and that's that.
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LiLsHoRt3y1 answered Thursday November 27 2003, 8:13 pm:
Hey, that doesn't neccesarily mean your bi-sexual. A lot of girls check out other girls and compare themselves. It doesn't mean your sexually attracted. Girls are always like that, seeing their competition like, "Oh she has a bigger butt" Things like that. You'll just have to find out. But that's what I think. Good luck! Don't hesitate to ask me anything else!
-Kachiri*

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ScaperJess answered Monday November 24 2003, 8:23 pm:
You are probably strait, lots of girls in there teen years will "scope out the companion" looking at other girls and thinking gee I wish I had boob's like that, or wow what a nice butt... Most the time it's an unconscious thing, and guys do it too... just scooping them out is normal for teens, when you look and think "wow I want her, she's hot" then your probably bi, even if you are, that is ok, it really doesn't make you any less of a person.

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picadilly answered Monday November 24 2003, 5:53 pm:
hey,
It is normal for a strait girl, such as yourself, to check out other girls. You could be envious, think she's pretty, wonder what guys see in her, it could be any number of reasons why. As long as you aren't attracted to them and you lean towards guys, you are guaranteed strait.

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Simple-Minded-Feebis answered Monday November 24 2003, 5:24 pm:
lots of girls seldum check out girls buts or think they are nice looking. it just means that your obsrevent and for all you know there could be something on there pants that you notice and they dont.

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joolaygurl89 answered Monday November 24 2003, 4:35 pm:
believe it or not, many girls check out others without even realizing it. they may even be fully straight also! Sometimes, they compare themselves to other girls bodies. It may just be jealousy. However, if you find yourself to have romantic feelings for a girl, but also men, it is possible you are Bisexual. Don't worry. It's not so bad. It is not a scary thing. Stereotypical people cause that. I am not bi myself, but I have friends who are, and their lives are pretty darn normal. Don't worry, life will go on.

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Turc answered Monday November 24 2003, 4:33 pm:
Everyone has a tendency to check out their "competition", so it's probably just normal that you're looking at these girls. We all want to improve things about ourselves and one way of figuring out what we want to improve is "checking out" what other people have got.

A lot of people do this but don't notice it.

At least, that's the way I look at the whole situation. I think you're still straight. Don't worry too much about it, you'll figure it out in time.

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