Question Posted Thursday November 13 2003, 7:55 am
well, i'm in grade seven and i'm the one outsider in my grade. i'm the one wearing the black makeup, etc. I really like this person alot and i know about at least 6 other girls that like him as well. me and him like most of the same things, hate the same things and we really get along great i know he's "the one"....or at least i think he is. i've always been very opposed to men and this is the first time i've ever liked any guy. what should i do to show him how i feel? and while i'm asking questions, how can i make some people take me seriously? most people know i'm crazy, fun, outgoing but some just don't take what i say seriously.
Here-To-Help answered Saturday November 15 2003, 10:58 am: To tell you the truth...I'm in a way, the outsider in the 8th grade. I have friends and things lke that but I'm just vey shy and everyone tries to push me and encourage me to talk louder.
I've been through the same situation with boys countless times.
The truth is, i like some very cute boys in my grade but i don't know if they feel the same way I do. but I'm not about to change myself for tehm if that's what they're looking for, and you shouldn't either.
If you really like this guy then ust be yourself, that's really all the advice I have to give you. You just continue talkin to him and be honest with him from the beginning. Just because other girls like him doesn't mean he's necessarily going to choose one of them. If people dont take what you say seriously.....you may want to talk about some serious things sometimes if that's what you normally dont talk about. Maybe soon I'll contact you again and answer your question if I have more advice but Im sorry, that's lal I have to give you know.
Email me anytime truevalue53@yahoo.com
sincerely,
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Maplesyrup answered Friday November 14 2003, 1:51 am: First, as for your people taking you seriously question, why don't you just lay of the goofyness for a while? You can show people your seirous by doing little thing that you state you will do. Like, you can say something like "Gee, I think I'll have the Mystery Meat special" and actually take it. Second, as for your boy question, you can hang around him more and show him more affection. Or, you can just leave a not in his book, but since what you write down cannot be taken back, since it's on paper, be carefu what you write.
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