Ok, I'll TRY to make this brief. There's this really great guy that's in my tech class and we've become pretty good friends. He's so sweet and really funny. He's a junior and I'm a sophmore. I've told him that I like him a while ago and he said that he just got out of a 3 year relationship and is "checking out the scenery". But lately he seems more interested. He jokes w/ me more, we've gone to a movie w/ 2 of my other friends, he always smiles and says HI in the halls, at my Halloween party he licked whipped creme off my chest, he hugs me goodbye (he gives the best hugs), and he's always really polite to me. The thing is though, he could just be a really friendly guy. Could he have changed his mind about not wanting a GF? Does he like me? I really like him and would LOVE to go out with him. I've been patient for a while but I don't want to wait forever. What's going on? Is this going anywhere?
Thanks for any advice, and sorry for the length!
MissNiceness answered Sunday November 9 2003, 8:30 am: I would try to reciprocate his hugs, touches, etc. with the same excitement you feel. It could be that he really does like you a lot, but memories from his last relationship are stopping him from "making that move", but once he gets really comfortable with you...it may be inevitable.
I'm sort of in a similar situation now. Except I really don't see the person in question that often. So my way of 'dealing' is to not shut the door to others who are interested in me. That way, I'm not obsessing over someone who may or may not want me. But if you think he's worth it...I would hold out a little longer. Most good things come with time anyway. [ MissNiceness's advice column | Ask MissNiceness A Question ]
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