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ex-boyfriend


Question Posted Thursday October 30 2003, 7:04 pm

Hi, Four month ago I broke up with my boyfriend, and I don't no the causes of the break-up.I saw him change, we used to go out together but he stopped and other many things in general his behaviour change totally, and one day he called me and said I think we should be friends, I did not understand why and I was'nt ready for that because I loved him. Days goes by and the behavior change, I did everything I could to keep him nothing change. Then the days goes buy I decided to keep myself busy and move on.We still call each other sometimes. He forget if I have his email address pass..sometimes I look at the email and I found another girl write to him, and according to the emails he sound he is going out with the girl and never told me.

Why did he do that to me and what should i do, I still thinking about him sometimes but I don't want to go back to a lier. WHAT CAN I DO AND WHY HE DID THAT??

THANK YOU.


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hiwatari answered Saturday November 8 2003, 5:14 pm:
man... ur that desperato? well... if you cant help dwelling upon the rotten past and not getting a grip on yourself, just ask him as a friend! good lord...... why don't you just get over him if he's ruining you? re-read your question! is this the person you want to be????

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ScaperJess answered Saturday November 1 2003, 4:36 pm:
Let it go! The relationship is over, and dwelling on it, and checking his e-mail is spying, and shows me some obsession. Sometimes people change other times its simply you were infatuated with him and you one day took your blinders off and see the real him. Since you broke up, he is entitled to see other people, and I know its hard to except a lose, and deal with a broken heart but in most everyone’s life they will have to deal with the same thing, there are other guys out there, better than him. You need to let him go, stop talking to him for awhile to get your head strait, and go with some girl friends somewhere like a mall to check out and flirt with other guys, your young, the selection is still big, you can let him become a memory and become yourself again, live for yourself rather than for a couple, and enjoy it...

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trailer_dan answered Thursday October 30 2003, 9:09 pm:
maby he did that becuase you dont wear the right clothes? cause this one time i had this girl who wore these skanky tops from wal-mart all the time and didnt like wearing sweters even in the winter when it was cold as hell cause we got our heat turned off again, and it was like "damn you can put some tclothes on now" eventhough i didnt really want her to, and she was like "I HATE YOU!" and waleked out and i never knew why. i just get by. okay it might be cause i left cans on the floor and she stepped on them and got all mad all the time. okay what im saying is u cant always know why people leave u just gotta keep going cause my next girlfriend, she threw cans on the floor too she was great.

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