ok i have a problem....there is this girl and she was one of my good friends untill one day her mom calls to complain all these mean thing that i did even though there not true....so what do i do...i cant just not be friends with her! SHES MY NEITHERBOR!!!
So you have to wonder why does your friends mother think you did those things? Maybe you can try talking to your friend asking why her mother thinks that. Something had to make her come up with those complaints and if you can firgure that out, you can get closer to solving your problem. Another suggestion is asking your mom to talk to her mom. Mothers speak the same language and it'll be easier if you can get your mom to understand the situation. Do so calmly and be patient. Because you did none of the things she said you did, you should be confident that things will work out. It's not your fault at all and you should be patient for it to get better.
Ansatsu answered Sunday November 2 2003, 12:08 am: Call her mom, tell her off. Then call her back a few times and just hang up. Then go find your mom and convince her that it would be a good idea to move. [ Ansatsu's advice column | Ask Ansatsu A Question ]
Invisible_Kate answered Tuesday October 21 2003, 7:45 pm: First of all I'd (peacefully) confront her mom and tell her that all these things aren't true. Unfortunately parents never seem to believe anyone but their children (from my experience), but if you tell her the truth in a mature way at least you can gain a bit of respect from her. If you and your friend can't work things out, and you can't get her to stop lying to her mom, don't worry about it too much. I hate my neighbors, grew up with them all throughout gradeschool. I ignore them now and it doesnt bother me at all. Hopefully it won't be too much different in your situation. [ Invisible_Kate's advice column | Ask Invisible_Kate A Question ]
ScaperJess answered Sunday October 19 2003, 2:20 pm:
PixieTwist answered Sunday October 19 2003, 11:48 am: I would ask her mother, and her possibly, where they heard that you did those things. Chances are someone just got mixed up, or there was a mis-communication. Also, tell them that those things are not true... if possible, offer proof. Explain how you would never do anything to hurt her (physically or emotionally), and try to generally make conversation with her. Hopefully, things will go back to normal eventually. [ PixieTwist's advice column | Ask PixieTwist A Question ]
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