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Trouble Reaching Orgasm
Having trouble achieving orgasm... alone or with your partner? Ask your question here.


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how to orgasm at 25


Posted Wednesday April 14 2021, 8:27 am

Hello, I am a 25 year old female. I’m not sure if I’ve ever orgasmed. When I explore myself, my interpretation of an orgasm is a feeling that builds up, releases and I’m done, and I achieve this by only rubbing my clitoris for a few minutes using the heel of my hand through pants, underwear etc. my vagina doesn’t get wet, and doesn’t need to be while doing this. But when I have sex, I feel like my vagina takes a long time to get wet even if my head is ready, and with a lot of clitoris stimulation from my partner I feel all of these things and my body starts moving away like it can’t handle it... almost like it’s over stimulated but it feels good but kind of hurts? Sometimes I can feel the pressure building up inside me but I c...

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Vibrator


Posted Wednesday December 2 2020, 3:29 am

I wanna buy a vibrator but I'm 15 and i dont wanna get carded so where do i go?

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I can’t cum!


Posted Wednesday August 14 2019, 5:38 pm

Hi. I am a man, And I can’t seem to make myself cum. I have to do it in private though, and I can’t watch anything while I jerk off. What should I do? Btw, I’m gay.

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Trouble reachimg climax


Posted Wednesday February 28 2018, 3:01 am

How can i reach my climax during sex?

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to make cum myself


Posted Saturday September 30 2017, 1:34 am

when i rub my clitorous it gives me pain,what to
do

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Sex


Posted Saturday July 22 2017, 2:45 am

How do you cum

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The rape has at least shown that you are able to orgasm


Posted Saturday June 17 2017, 12:44 pm

My wife was raped when she was 15 by a 25 year old construction worker. She made a date to go to his house. When she got there the guy ripped her clothes off and raped her vaginally and anally. On top of that his roommate was watching discreetly. Sounds horrible and in some ways I'm sure it was but she orgasm d intensely, went back the next day knowing what would happen. She thought about that every time she masturbated for years after that. She also liked to be dominated, treated like a slut, and does to this day.

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I don't know what happened?


Posted Friday April 7 2017, 3:16 pm

OK ... I was home alone and I got really horny... I am 18 female and well I decided to search how to masturbate I read and I was getting more and more horny.. I have touched my self already but always after I did it I will still feel the urge today how ever while just reading methods I had some different feeling.. Then eventually I got up yo do it and I could barely move I felt weird then I was involuntarily squeezed I might say and I didn't feel horny again when I went to the bathroom my undies was wet with a lot of discharged was that an orgasm... Im a virgin..



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Please help I am 12 and can not buy a dildo


Posted Friday September 2 2016, 1:44 am

I am a 12 year old girl who can't masturbate and need help because I can't buy a dildo


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Can't climax at alll


Posted Wednesday June 8 2016, 1:13 pm

I have been having an extream time trying to have a nice orgasm. I can't seem to have one at all ever. With or without someone. I'll get to the point where I'm all hot sweaty and my body gets all twitchy and I start to breath heavy. Once all this happens I'm done. I don't feel like I have had a great release. Nothing comes out. Any suggestions on how to fix this would be great.

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Intimacy


Posted Tuesday May 31 2016, 12:58 pm

I am 29 my partner is 33, we been friends with benifits/dating for three years now. We both have one daughter each both are 5. We live in separate places see each other as much as possible. We are always sexuly busy when near each other. He's not one for doing for play even tho I enjoy it very much he just likes to go right at it. I need to orgasm with him he is starting to get faster at ed with this problem as am I. If I can just orgasm with him our relationship will start to get on track again. PLZ HELP AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE

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Posted Monday March 21 2016, 9:41 pm

Hello I'm 14 and I whack off. I just started to shoot cum and give off more yesterday but I realized the orgasm isn't as good as it used to be when my cum just oozed. Is that how it's supposed to be?

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I take longer to cum?


Posted Friday February 19 2016, 2:27 pm

It take a much longer time for me to cum.Why?

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** 18+ ** why don't I enjoy fingering myself


Posted Sunday February 14 2016, 2:19 am

When I'm horny I like to masturbate but I've noticed that fingering myself doesn't turn me on like it does for most girls and to get off I use the old " pillow hump " way and it's so much helpful so why isn't fingering getting me off is there something else I should know about 😂😂 idk I know this is weird but I really want to know

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Having touble getting hard


Posted Thursday December 3 2015, 1:44 pm

My boyfriend is 25 years old (so am I) and we have recently started dating. After becoming sexual I've realized one thing - he's having trouble getting hard. We haven't had sex yet, well because he hasn't been able to get hard. We will be making out and he will be fingering me and still nothing. Last night he even tried to do it himself and it didn't work. It's frustrating for both of us but he says he just needs lube and he can get hard in seconds. Is this normal? I've never had this problem with past boyfriends. He said he swears its not because of me he's just always needed lube to get hard.

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orgasm maybe?


Posted Friday November 6 2015, 7:04 am

While my boyfriend is eating me out, my legs and my arms and everything go tingly and I cant control my body and I want to close my legs. Am I about to orgasm or what? Why does it make me want to close my legs?

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help


Posted Sunday November 1 2015, 4:46 pm

I don't know why I don't shoot cum during masterbation. Ever time I get to the climax I get hot and numb and can't open my eyes. Then I cum. I forgot to mention I use lotion as a lubricant. When I cum it's the color of sugar water with some solid white parts. But it only oozes instead. When I cum its only enough to fill a thimble. Is there something wrong? Please help.

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4 months first partner still in pain


Posted Friday October 30 2015, 7:46 am

I don't know if this is normal, my gyno says it is. I'm a 27 year old female, I have been with my partner for more than a year and it was the first time we had sex 4 months ago when we got married. I never had sex before and once we did it was really painful inside. I thought maybe by time it would be easier but no. I still feel the pain. Sometimes I don't if I've had a drink or was really relaxed with nothing on my mind but other times I get really dry quickly and then the intercourse becomes painful, even with lubricant. I also don't orgasm from penetration...normal? I've had orgasms without penetration but I don't feel like it's enough any more. How do I overcome this? My husband was really understanding when I spoke to him, we usually ...

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help need to know if im producing real cum


Posted Tuesday June 30 2015, 5:43 pm

I'm 13 and I jerk weekly and I need to know if I'm giving off real cum. When i jerk I often feel a orgasm that is an amazing sensation that starts from my penis and throughout my whole body. The only way I can describe it is amazing.i often close my eyes at that time take a brake and continue after a 10second cooler then this fluid flows out by droplets and didn't shoot like its supposed to. The liquid is like the color of sugar water with a little white, is that real cum? A guy told me it was I believe him about the orgasm but not the cum I need help. Plus I never feel the cum rising to my head I can only imagine the feeling.

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Why can't I orgasm?


Posted Tuesday June 16 2015, 12:16 pm

Hello everyone, I am having sexual frustration as well is my partner. I am a female and I cannot orgasm. When he plays with my clit it becomes ticklish and feels good but it's almost uncomfortable at the same time. And when I really start going my legs normally spaz and my body jolts and then he tries again and the same thing keeps happening. Can anyone give me ANY advice on how to relax, or to make my legs stop spazzing, literally ANY kind of advice or tips. I want to orgasm so bad and I get in the way of myself from getting there. Also, when a female does orgasm, does she always cum? Thankyou!!

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