im 13 years of age i am a female and i know this boy lets say G.we have been bestfriends for a few months now.he finaly said he liked me but he wont date me.he said we had to be friends before he dates me.he says he doesnt wanna lose our friendship but i have no idea how to explain to him that i wont let that happen any advice possible please and thank you
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? holahayley56 answered Thursday June 2 2011, 9:07 am: I agree you shouldn't rush it. I have been in this situation twice. The first time, he was my best friend for a few years And we always liked eachother but we didn't want to mess our perfect friendship up. Well, it did, and after we broke up we never talked to eachother again. But, the second time this happened to me it ended a little better. We remained friends for a little while, we still talk on occassion.
You can't say you won't let that happen, because you never know what the future holds. I think you should wait another month or atleast few weeeks and then maybe start dating. You're young and you have plenty of time :) I think you need to decide if it's worth the risk.
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