Question Posted Saturday December 26 2009, 1:14 pm
hey im a female and 17 years old. I am just wondering what anyone thinks of a long distance relationship? You think its not a good idea or do you think it couldnt work out? Long distance,as in 4 hours apart? but still in the same state. Because this summer I had this thing with this guy up north and we got to hang out when I took time to drive up there and stuff but I liked him and he liked me and I dont know, I just want some opinions. Please itd be great.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? daydmac answered Wednesday December 30 2009, 1:46 am: i personally think that long distance relationships can definitely work out...i for one am in a long distance relationship.. my girlfriend is all the way across the country in california, while i live in new york.. we've been together for over a year now and although it's hard not having the person you care about most with you all the time, making the relationship work definitely has greater rewards.. you appreciate the time you actually spend together more and you don't take a lot of things in relationships for granted.. i think you should try and make the relationship work if you really want it to..long distance relationships, however, do require a lot of trust in your partner and you must take whatever difficulties may come your way because you two are usually apart.. good luck! [ daydmac's advice column | Ask daydmac A Question ]
Lilz answered Monday December 28 2009, 4:08 pm: The main thing is that if you think it could workout. You need to believe that it will work if you don't it won't. If you feel that you can trust him and he could trust you it should be fine.
taylorcheers answered Saturday December 26 2009, 11:20 pm: distance makes the heart grow fonder...its a proven fact. Many people try to say that long distance relationships are pointless and will fail in the end..but i personally disagree. Although my "long distance relationship" is only about 45 minutes,i can honestly say that not seeing that person every day makes me miss them even more;and by missing them it makes that time i do get to spend with them even more special. I personally think that you should give this relationship a try..if you two truly care about each other this distance wont create a problem..it will only strengthen the bond that you two share. Call each other,text,send pictures..i promise you that this isnt a waste of your time... i wish you the best!
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