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I want to become closer
Okay so I've been dating this guy off and on for about 9 months. We have our great times and our rough times. But we haven't really been getting any closer. Anythings you could suggest that I could do to help us get closer???
I Kinda feel like we're drifting apart, we dont talk as much as we use to. When I look around at other happy couples thats how I want to be and it just isn't like that.
We also dont hangout as much as before eithier, probably because we live in a small town and there isn't much to do that we've havn't already done a hunderd times.
So Please help me out if you have ideas that we can do or along thoe lines.
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First off, no couple is perfect. And the fact that you and your boyfriend arent close is probly 'cause you've been dating for so long and he feels that he needs a change, expecially if you are living in a small town. I bet he feels that he needs a little more excitement in your relationship. have you ever thought about sitting him down and having a nice long conversation about your relationship? Ask him how he feels your relationship is going so far, and ask him to be completely honest and open. Isn't that what a good relationship is all about? Think about it. If he isnt totally into telling you how he feels then whats the point on keeping the relationship.
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When you are with your significant other it shouldn't matter what you are doing, you should be able to do anything and have a blast just enjoying one another's company. But if you would still like some ideas, maybe you could just play stupid little children's games that make you laugh. Like hide n' seek, but on teams, this way you two would have to work together and hide together etc., and therefore hopefully bringing you together. Watch movies together, or as you are sitting together as each other questions about the other person to see how much you know about one another. These are just fun little things that pass time, but also let you have laughs and get to know each other better.
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