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Gothic, emo, punk, etc.


Question Posted Sunday July 9 2006, 11:16 pm

I hate stereotyping! And people are always calling me goth or emo, (im considered emo). But I hate it when I'm called gothic. They don't know whether I'm with God or not! I wish they'd all just stop judging! I don't know what else to do. I always just get a deep voice and say "be careful what you wish for", gothics seek revenge". LOL. j/k. But what could I say to get them to stop???

Thanx
~KAYLA~


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Jayde answered Monday July 10 2006, 10:42 am:
"Fashion is a form of ugliness so intolerable
that we have to alter it every 6 months."
yup i stole that from Oscar Wilde
but thats what i think that people have to remember every time people try and label you, you can bet that in a few months it will all be different.
Also labeling yourself as emo is a complete misconception, unless of course you know the origins of emotive hardcore?
take care x

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mrbrodie answered Monday July 10 2006, 9:05 am:
Theres always going to be some idiots that stereotype, whether its religion/colour/style/age ......but most of it is wrong. All this goth/chav/skater stuff nowadays is pretty crap. Don't worry about what they say, they just say it because these people are so insecure they need to 'group' other people and feel they are too good too sink into one of these groups. (because popular opinion puts accross that goths/chavs etc are all horrible people) Ignore, these people are to stupid to stop :)

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advicefashionista answered Monday July 10 2006, 1:13 am:
If you like the way you look, then just ignore those stereotypers! If they call you gothic then just simply say, "You dont know me". That will show them! You could also get to know some of the people who stereotype, if they get to know you they will see that the real you isnt emo!
hope this helps :)

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caramella answered Monday July 10 2006, 1:04 am:
i think you should tell them that this is how you are wether they like it or not get over it ppl. they MIGHT stop and might not.if they dont you seriously shouldnt give a damn they can say what they want to say only YOU can decide what you really are.you dont have to wastte your time caring about what they all have to say about you or even listen to them in the first place.

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Exquisitechick answered Monday July 10 2006, 1:00 am:
Dont let them see that it bothers you. When they say that just ignore them. If you tell them to stop, they will know its bothering you and keep doing it.

Just ignore them!

Good luck

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