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Im the jelous ex! :(


Question Posted Tuesday June 27 2006, 9:02 pm

Well me and this boy talked for about 3 months! At first when i found out that he liked me i had no intrest once so ever but as we started talking we got closer and eventually i fell in love with him! {my 1st real love} But then all of a sudden we just stopped talking and got in a huge fight {it was mostly b/c i wouldnt have sex with him}. One of his friends hated me and called me a whore so one of my guy friends {hes a big guy!} confronted him about it!...The boy's {that i love} sister and i are also very good friends so when she told me that he was getting into dangerous things she asked me to talk to him about it. I did that and i thought maybe he would be happy that i at least cared about him. We didnt talk for a few more weeks then he asked me to go his party so me,my best friend, and my guy friend {the big guy}all went. He was with another girl the whole night but told me that we wanted to get back with me!...the next day he was going out with this girl and having sex with that hes only known for a week and we had a huge argument 2 days after the party, where he told me that he found someone "better" then me and things like that! i still love him and i kno i shouldnt :S what should i do!
*catherine*


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kendrabdatgirl answered Tuesday June 27 2006, 11:37 pm:
since he was your first love it's only natural that you'll still have feelings for him, even though he may treat you wrong. him argueing about you not having sex with him is unfortunatly something most boys do but it's wrong. and if he gets mad because you made your own decison about not having sex with him then he's definitly not worth loving or having feelings for. I know you say you love him (but think, did he really love you?) people change and sometimes you have to deal with it and sometimes you don't. he's really being a asshole...he's all over this girl and has sex with someone he's only known for a week and asks you out is really stupid...and that argument you guys had about him saying he found someone better is a clue for you....you need to go find a guy that is better and treats you good but im not sayin the first guy you think is sexy or sweet just chill for a while and then go out with a better guy for you. try not being sad or jealous over him just let him do his thing but of course let him know you care, not verbally because that'll probably be another arguement....hope i helped

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